“Life is not the way it’s supposed to be, it’s the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.” - Virginia Satir

Cancer has been an uninvited guest in my family on more than one occasion. I have watched it take both of my grandmothers, my aunt, my uncle, and my mother. Each of these beloved family members fought their battles with inspiring fierceness and considerable courage. Each one was loved, supported, and encouraged and was on the receiving end of immeasurable hope, faith, and undying love. In the end, each one lost their courageous battle. We are left with a hole in our hearts that can only partially be filled by the memories of our time with them and the love we shared.

In 2021 my cousin was diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer. Claudine is 2 months younger than me.  This one hit me hard. This time it was different. It was a wake-up call.  Yet another factor that went into my decision that something in my life had to change – something had to give. I kept asking myself, “Is this the way I want to live my life?” If lucky, I may have another 20 years.  Maybe.

My participation in 29029 was born, in part, from the intrusion of cancer in my family’s life.  I wanted to make the most of the time I have left on this earth. I was tired of being afraid of failing and not willing to take chances. I was tired of being on autopilot and feeling handcuffed. 

By the grace of God, Claudine was at Whistler this year to watch me participate in 29029.  God not only gave me the ability and opportunity to climb nearly 20,000’ in 21 hours, but he also allowed my cousin to be there to hug me at the end. 

MOUNTAIN MINDSET

We are never guaranteed tomorrow. Are you living your best life? Or are you living on autopilot? Change is hard. Doing something you have never done before is scary. What if you fail? Or….what if you end up learning so much about yourself and it ends up being the catalyst for positive and fulfilling life change? Take the risk. It’s worth it!